GUIDING YOUNG HEARTS — CULTIVATING PATIENCE IN MINISTRY

As I delve into the third month of ministry, the path has become a profound tapestry of growth, patience, and unwavering faith. Patience, a virtue profoundly echoed in the Bible, now takes center stage in the intricate dance of serving in the Lord's vineyard. In this chapter of "Guiding Young Hearts,” I journey through self-discovery, love, and compassion inspired by God's Grace. The pages unfold with the wisdom I gained in the trenches of ministry.

Biblical Foundation for Patience

In the echoes of James 5:7, "Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord," I find solace and guidance. The parallel to a farmer awaiting the precious fruit of the earth resonates deeply. Patience, akin to waiting for the early and late rains, becomes not just a virtue but a posture—one that nurtures the seeds of change in the lives of children like Jesse and John.

“Parenting Ourselves” in Ministry

Reflecting on the quote, "Parenting is more about parenting ourselves than really parenting our kids," from the book "The Whole-Brain Child" by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, I draw parallels to ministry. As ministers, we must continually parent and nurture our own spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being, recognizing that personal growth is intertwined with effective ministry. It’s a reminder that parenting extends beyond the children. 

In ministry, the transformative concept of "parenting ourselves" beckons us to let God be the guiding Parent of our souls. In the whirlwind of challenges and triumphs, it's about surrendering our fears, doubts, and insecurities to the divine wisdom of a Heavenly Father who understands the depths of our hearts. Allowing God to parent us in ministry means finding solace in His unwavering love, seeking His guidance in moments of uncertainty, and embracing His comforting presence in times of exhaustion. It's a continuous process of self-discovery, where God nurtures our spiritual and emotional well-being, shaping us into compassionate, patient, and resilient ministers of His grace. As we yield to God's parenting, we discover a profound source of strength that sustains us through the highs and lows of serving others in His name.

God's View of His Children

Stepping into Matthew 19:14, where Jesus beckons, "Let the little children come to me," I find reassurance in God's enduring love and patience for His children. As Jesse and John navigate their relationships and challenging behaviours, this divine perspective becomes the compass guiding my interactions. Patience becomes not just a virtue but a reflection of God's love for them.

Jesus said, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these. —Matthew 19:14 (NIV)

The Growth Process in Ministry

The ministry journey unfolds like the growth of a seed—a transformative journey into a flourishing plant. Galatians 6:9 becomes a whisper in the wind, encouraging me not to grow weary in doing good. This verse serves as a reminder that patience in ministry is rewarded, and the growth process unfolds in God's perfect timing. Jesse and John, much like delicate plants, respond to patient nurturing. It's witnessing the small victories—the moments when they choose healthier ways to cope and communicate—that reaffirms the Divine timing of growth.

“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." —Galatians 6:9

Flemingdon Park Children

Cultivating Patience with Jesse and John

In the intimate dance with Jesse and John, patience becomes more than a virtue; it's a daily practice. The echoes of their tumultuous past often resurface in emotional outbursts, challenging my ability to remain patient. Yet, it is precisely in these moments that the transformative power of patience is most evident. It's the consistent, patient response that becomes a balm to their wounded hearts, allowing the Holy Spirit to work its magic.

Patience, an essential virtue, allows us to trust in God's plan, recognizing that the growth process is ongoing and purposeful. Just as parents must first nurture themselves to effectively parent their children, we, as ministers, must cultivate patience within ourselves to faithfully serve God's people. In the tapestry of ministry, may we find strength and inspiration in the words of Scripture, fostering a patient and enduring spirit.

Final Thoughts

As I reflect on the past three months, the journey of cultivating patience in ministry with Jesse and John becomes a testimony to God's grace. The intricate threads of patience are woven into the fabric of their transformation, reminding me that this journey is not just about the children but about the continual shaping of my own heart in the image of God's enduring love. It's a personal narrative of growth, love, and compassion inspired by Jesus’ teachings, which reminds us to anchor ourselves in the timeless wisdom of the Bible. In this tapestry, the ministry's heartbeat resonates with the divine rhythm of patience—a melody that guides young hearts toward a deeper understanding of God's grace.

My hope and prayer are that Jesse and John are enveloped in the comforting embrace of God's love. May Jesus' transformative touch illuminate their challenging journey, filling their hearts with patience and understanding. Grant them the strength to navigate the obstacles ahead, and may the radiant light of Jesus' love shine profoundly in their lives. I ask for blessings upon those who extend care and support to them, that every interaction may be imbued with Jesus' wisdom and compassion. Placing Jesse and John in God's merciful hands, I trust in His divine love, believing in its power to bring forth healing and transformation. Amen.

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TRANSFORMING HEARTS—THE STORY OF JESSIE AND JOHN (Part 1)

Background: A Fragile Start

Jessie and John are children living in the Flemingdon Park community. They sometimes navigate through tough circumstances, influenced by challenging conditions and surrounded by less favorable role models. They encounter difficulties in a learning and living environment that presents its own set of challenges. 

Prior to our involvement, and occasionally still, they articulate their struggles through expressions that can be hurtful, with instances, especially in John's case, even extending to physical actions. This dynamic has created a complex environment not only for them but also for those in their proximity.

God's Timing

The turning point for Jessie and John came after a heartfelt conversation. My colleague, Lincoln, and I recognized that routine guidance wasn't enough; they needed our understanding, compassion, and a connection to their pain. It was during this crucial encounter that God's divine timing became evident.

The Work of the Holy Spirit

Following that conversation, we made the conscious decision to pull Jessie and John, along with other kids, aside whenever their emotions seemed to spiral. We wanted to give them the attention and understanding they deserved. In these moments, we witnessed the transformative power of the Holy Spirit at work.

Signs of Transformation

Over time, we noticed a significant change in Jessie and John. They became more receptive to our conversations and, most importantly, more open to understanding and managing their emotions. Previously, they would retaliate when provoked by their peers. Now, they are learning healthier ways to cope and communicate.

The Significance of this Story—Reflecting God's Love

Patience is a transformative process, an essential thread woven into the fabric of God's boundless love. This story reflects the boundless love and understanding that Jesus exhibited during His ministry. Just as Jesus embraced the marginalized and hurting, we, too, extended our love and care to the children. Furthermore, this story reflects the profound significance of patience, illustrating how it aligns with God's enduring love and guides young hearts, much like Jessie and John, toward a transformative journey of healing and growth.

TCM's Identity—Transforming Lives through God's Power

This story embodies the core identity of TCM. It’s not just an organization; it's a vessel for God's transformational power. It reaffirms our mission to transform the lives of children and their families through the love and grace of Christ. Jessie and John's journey illustrates that we are not just shaping young minds; we are nurturing souls and paving the path to Christ for those who need it most.

Matthew 19:14 (NIV) reminds us: "Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.’"

In the transformation of Jessie and John, we see the manifestation of this biblical truth. Their story reaffirms our commitment to guide children toward Christ, no matter their past or challenges, reflecting the love and understanding that Jesus embodies.

(Continue in Part 2)

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EMBRACING GOD’S CALL: A Journey of Faith and Service

Entering the world of internships is an experience full of anticipation, progress, and the unexpected. I encountered amazing moments of faith, transformative experiences with children, and glimpses of God's presence at work as I began my second year as an intern, responding to God's call to immerse myself further in urban ministry.

RESPONDING TO GOD’S CALL.

““Blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in Him.””

— Jeremiah 17:7

Returning as an intern for a second year was not a decision I made lightly. I wanted time to figure out if this was indeed God's way for me. Through reflection, prayer, and frequent meetups with Elliot and Dorothy through the past year, I concluded that God was calling me to fully embrace urban ministry with children. This second year would allow me to delve further into the work and better prepare for my future role as an outreach worker. I took a confident stride forward, trusting in the Lord's guidance.

GOD’S WORK IN CHILDREN’S LIVES.

““And whoever welcomes one of such children in my name, welcomes me.”
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— Matthew 18:5

Seeing God's transformative power in the lives of children was a life-changing event for me during camp. Jay, one of the campers, came from a non-Christian family and originally questioned Jesus' existence. Jay participated in Bible lectures and conversations through our after-school program and Sonshine Day Camp. Jay's interest heightened as we discussed the story of Jesus and His resurrection. His receptivity to God's voice was clear when he described looking at clouds and wondering whether God was speaking to him through those formations. It served as a reminder that God's work in children's lives is wonderful and full of surprises.

FAITH DEVELOPMENT AND CHALLENGES.

““I can do all of this through Him, who gives me strength.” ”

— Philippians 4:13

Like Jay, my faith saw both growth and obstacles throughout my internship. Participating in urban ministry reminded me of my past, while exposing me to the realities of families affected by pockets of poverty today. My heart was struck with compassion when I met families and individuals struggling where they are and finding support in TCM’s free programs and encouragement from the Outreach Workers. As I realized the importance of TCM’s ministry, this experience challenged me to lean on God's power and rely on His guidance. When I put my trust in Him, I discovered that I could do more than I ever thought.

THE INFLUENCE OF BIBLE LESSONS ON PERSONAL LIFE.

““All Scripture is God-breathed, and it is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.””

— 2 Timothy 3:16

Teaching Bible stories and lessons to campers had a life-changing impact on me last year. I gained new insights and a greater grasp of God's Word as I prepared and shared these stories. The Scriptures, which were inspired by God, were used not only for teaching but also for personal growth, rebuke, correction, and training. The Bible's transformational power became clear as I dug into its timeless truths, teaching the children and me.

GOD’S COMFORT THROUGH WORSHIP.

““Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” ”

— 2 Corinthians 1:3–4

During the first day of camp, as I explained the purpose of worship to the children—some of them coming from non-Christian backgrounds—one child, who we’ll call Hope, shared an answer when asked why we worship. She said, "We worship God because He comforts us whenever we're sad.” Her response may have resonated in the hearts of those present because she so brilliantly stated one of the essences of Worship in a simple yet thoughtful manner. It reminded everyone in the room that God is the source of comfort in our trials, and that we can draw near to Him through worship, gaining solace and strength. Hope's response demonstrated the power of worship in connecting with God's calming presence.

Witnessing the genuine and pure faith of the children was one of the most uplifting aspects of camp. Despite their limited knowledge and understanding, they gladly and eagerly attempted to answer questions and participate in Worship and Bible discussions. Their childlike curiosity and openness mirrored the core of authentic Worship—coming to God with humility, gratitude, trust, and a simple desire to be in His presence. Their involvement and enjoyment during Worship served as a lovely reminder of the importance of childlike faith in our worship experiences.

WISDOM FROM A CHILD’S MOUTH

““Truly, truly, I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”
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— Matthew 18:3

Some of the most important lessons I continue to receive comes directly from the children—their trust, innocence, and unvarnished outlook on life reminded me of the value of childlike faith. Their genuine astonishment and excitement to learn about God challenged me to approach my relationship with Him with the same wonder and eagerness. I witnessed a shift in my own faith journey as a result of their basic yet deep questions and observations.

As I reflect on my internship experience, I am grateful for the opportunities for faith, connection, and transformation. Hope's response, coming from a non-Christian family, beautifully expressed the spirit of worship as seeking comfort in God's presence. The lines of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 struck a deep chord with me, reminding me that God is the ultimate source of solace in our trials. Observing the campers' innocent confidence and enthusiasm in their first worship experience also highlighted the need of approaching God with a humble and trusting heart.

Accepting the call to intern and serve has given me the opportunity to experience the power of worship, the beauty of childlike faith, and God's comfort. As I continue on this path of faith and service, I remember Proverbs 3:5-6, believing in the Lord's guidance and surrendering my understanding to His wisdom. May we all find refuge in God's calming presence and approach Him in worship with the amazement and trust of a child.